Thursday 7 November 2013

Today just came a thought in my mind that what would it take to have

a perfect life. A problem free life that never got problems and just gave

all what a person wants. Today the lovely breeze that is touching my

face gives me a satisfaction f being loved and cared and doing the same

for the person who is doing that for me, I just love the cold breeze

blowing up to me and saying that u are not alone u have the best things

u can ever imagine or want more than u have it an awesome feeling it

gives me Goosebumps. As I don’t want this weather to go ever away

from me because I am scared that if it will go the feeling of being cared

will also go away it’s the only one thing that gives me satisfaction of

being happy otherwise the life has so many challenges in live the ups

and downs that every teenagers goes through but its normal in life as

this the way we are able to solve our problems and can be able to solve

or take up any challenge that comes in our way and don’t have to fear

anything just believe in yourself and make the other also believe in u so

that they never underestimate u and give u respect.

Friday 6 September 2013


The best times with friends in hostel on teachers day new experience


 







"Mom" always gives tender love, warm heart and good care to us. "Mom" can do anything and build a happier life for us. That's why "Mom" is so special. "Mom" is certainly our shield from all harm. We can say that "Mom" always gives us true love.

Without Mom's love where would we be!

Mother is always deserved for everything. If our mother‘s are does everything for us then it’s our responsibility to do everything for her. She keeps a very important place in our life. Without mother our life is black & white.

We all know what mother importance in our life is. Mother’s are very important and needed in child life. In our all life we learn different things from our mother. Mothers always teach us and her advice always very beneficial for us.
We can’t ignore her advices. Mother is the nurturers & custodian of their kids and families. It is harder these days for mothers to be capable to be with their kids to the extent that they utilized to be because generally two parents require working full-time jobs just to stay alive or survive. Mother’s always our very close and best friend and she is only person in the world who never deceives to their children.
We should be friendly with mothers. We should respect her. Mother prayers always makes us successful person. We know mother’s day come once in the year and on this special day we wish to our mothers and make mother’s day special.
Mother heart is always very soft and patient. Mother heart is like a rare jewel. They love their kids during the worst (trouble) & best of times. All mothers are not same but all mothers love their children and want to see them happy. Mother is a great gift for us from God. No one can take place of mother.

   
"Mom" always gives tender love, warm heart and good care to us. "Mom" can do anything and build a happier life for us. That's why "Mom" is so special. "Mom" is certainly our shield from all harm. We can say that "Mom" always gives us true love.

Without Mom's love where would we be!

Mother is always deserved for everything. If our mother‘s are does everything for us then it’s our responsibility to do everything for her. She keeps a very important place in our life. Without mother our life is black & white.

We all know what mother importance in our life is. Mother’s are very important and needed in child life. In our all life we learn different things from our mother. Mothers always teach us and her advice always very beneficial for us.
We can’t ignore her advices. Mother is the nurturers & custodian of their kids and families. It is harder these days for mothers to be capable to be with their kids to the extent that they utilized to be because generally two parents require working full-time jobs just to stay alive or survive. Mother’s always our very close and best friend and she is only person in the world who never deceives to their children.
We should be friendly with mothers. We should respect her. Mother prayers always makes us successful person. We know mother’s day come once in the year and on this special day we wish to our mothers and make mother’s day special.
Mother heart is always very soft and patient. Mother heart is like a rare jewel. They love their kids during the worst (trouble) & best of times. All mothers are not same but all mothers love their children and want to see them happy. Mother is a great gift for us from God. No one can take place of mother.

   

Girls aren't inferior. They never were!

the struggle of girls in India  :-(Discrimination against female children has been a topic of debate. It has been a subject of concern and sociological significance. This subject raises the cultural aspects about the role of a female child in society, what her human rights are as a human being and a number of sensitive issues.This issue is important because there is nearly universal consensus on the need for gender equality. Gender based discrimination against female children is pervasive across the world. It is seen in all the strata of society and manifests in various forms. As per the literature, female child has been treated inferior to male child and this is deeply engraved in the mind of the female child. Some argue that due to this inferior treatment the females fail to understand their rights. This is more predominant in India as well as other lesser developed countries. Sex selection of the before birth and neglect of the female child after birth, in childhood and, during the [teenage] years has outnumbered males to females in India and also in countries like Pakistan, Bangladesh and South Korea. These numbers tell us quite a harsh story about neglect and mistreatment of the female child in India. Women have a biological advantage over men for longevity and survival, however, in spite of this there are more men than women. The figures above support that gender discrimination of female child is a basic facility area. Though the demographic characteristics do not show much or in some cases, anti-female bias, there is always a woman who receives a small piece of the pie.


EducationIt has often been argued that women’s education is the key to reducing discrimination against daughters. However, female literacy rate has risen from 15% to 54%, even as the [juvenile][sex] ratio has fallen. Furthermore, some studies have shown that educated mothers are far more “efficient” in discriminating against their daughters than uneducated mothers. Other studies have shown that higher levels of maternal education decreases mortality for both boys and girls, the effect is larger for girls, thus providing evidence that higher levels of maternal education decrease gender differentials in child mortality. On the other hand, there is also evidence that maternal education at the district and [household] levels is weakly associated with increases in female survival At a macro level, in general high female literacy states—Kerala, Andhra Pradesh, Karnataka and Goa—each with relatively high female education levels have shown less discrimination towards girls but in the past 20 years, high female literacy has not stopped Delhi and Tamil Nadu from showing increased discrimination against female child.
The female child in India is often deprived from her right of an education. The basic facility of education is deprived to her. Also, even if she is in school, the number of girls dropping out of school far exceeds the boys. Definitely, this is because she is expected to help at home, either in household work like washing, cooking or help in taking care of her younger siblings. Since girls spend more time completing domestic/household chores and this increases the gap between female and male equality in rural parts of India, it perpetuates the myth that education is of no help to the girl and her primary job will be to look after the household work, get married early, have children and then raise them. If this is the job she has to do, then education is of no importance to her and it is not imparted. Also, even with education and financial independence, women might not get the same rights and liberties which a man may have. It is through education in the early days of a child that we can bring about behavior changes and open doors to opportunities that will enhance their confidence, personality and career. Often in these communities, women, in particular, are considered an inferior sex and are raised to accept this belief. Nearly 80% of the girls drop out from standards I to V. Out of the 100 girls that enroll in class 1 only 42 reach class V. Among [Schedule Castes] and [Schedule Tribes], many of those who live below poverty line of the 100 girls only 19 reach class V. Many of these girls work in the unorganized sectors such as the beedi industry .Two characteristics of beedi workers stand out: one, their being largely home based, and the other the predominance of women and girl children. The beedi sector represents the gender division of labor because most of the women along with girls sitting at home do the [beedi] making and boys are not involved in it.


UNWANTED CHILDREN: FEMALE INFANTICIDE AND FOETICIDE IN INDIAFemale foeticide, the act of aborting a foetus because it is female, is a major social problem in India where there is a strong preference for sons over daughters.A recent study found 500,000 unborn girls were being aborted every year. A UNICEF report in 2006 revealed that 10 million girls were killed - either before they were born or immediately after - by their parents from 1986 in India.The practise is most prominent in Gujarat and the North Indian states, where there are low recorded rates of female children. Female infanticide, the act of killing unwanted baby girls, is a long-standing cultural problem across the whole of the Indian sub continent owing to the patriarchal nature of society.Male children are preferred in the belief they will bring wealth and prosperity to the family while female children are often viewed as burdens.Another factor is the dowry system, where the family of the bride give a large sum of money or valuable goods to the groom and his family.Although the dowry system has been outlawed it continues to be deeply ingrained in Indian culture.Families with several daughters can find the practise of paying a dowry a serious burden.Female foeticide began in the early 1990s as a result of the availability in India of ultrasound techniques capable of determining the sex of an unborn child.As a result, 80 per cent of Indian districts have reported a greater ratio of male to female children since 1991.The practise is believed to have led to an increase in human trafficking with women being bought and sold as brides in areas where there are a greater proportion of men.


God helps those who help themselves
This is a saying which I thing is 80% Is true but sometimes I things all this is fake .In my experience god exists but not in actual word but in form of people ,for me my god is my parents as they are the ones who have brought us to this world and have made us so capable that where we are know is all because of them if they were not there for us we would have never been able to reach such a high position in our lives and how much ever I thank them is less as if I try my whole life also to do something for them I won’t be able to pay off for everything that they did for me and I am very thankful to them.
The true goal of human life is happiness -- happiness, peace, satisfaction, fulfillment, well-being, enlightenment. So,the best place to apply the principle "God helps those who help themselves" may be in the emotional/psychological aspect of life. There we find the most direct and powerful impact on personal happiness and well-being. And there can be no doubt that God is more interested in spiritual wealth than material wealth.

We have got everything so easily that we don’t know how difficult is was for our parents to achieve that in their whole life and we just waist all what they have earned for their whole life in like few seconds of minutes we think all this is free and spending it is very easy and we are so happy that dad gave us money lets go and do shopping but we never realize that from we’re did this money come to him and how much hard work as been put into it to achieve that small amount of money sorry for saying small amount that small amount is actually a large amount for the person who struggles the whole day and earns it and then gets it at home and gives it to us so that we are happy and we are having our proper meals ,I really feel proud of the children of the poor as they know what is the importance of money in their life as they know the actual importance of it more than we so they have struggled to get that money and there scarifies and their parents have done they have done for them and are doing they have not gone to school as they know that it is not possible but instead of feeling bad they help their parents in such small ages from the start and when they are big enough they are already independent so they are able to work and earn money and feel proud for what achievements they have done. All what they do in there early ages they are, I hoped that we also knew the importance of all this and were able to do something for them and make them proud and I really love my parents for all the things they have done for me.